A few pointers...

Any kind of IBD will have a serious impact of emotions of the diagnosed person and the ones surrounding them. Therefore appropriate medical attention is imperative, but some type of counseling may also be beneficial to relieve stress in such a difficult time. 

Find a specialist with whom you feel comfortable and trust. Make sure they listen to concerns you have. Don't be afraid to ask questions until you understand. 

There are several good books out on the market which really helped my family and I understand the in's and out's of the impact of Ulcerative Colitis on day to day living. Take a look at some cookbooks especially for IBD. We found that changing diet, though it may not be a cure, can make things a little better. As a family, we changed our eating habits in order to make it easier. 

I hope these simple tips help a little.